Women

Men and women are different. No better or worse ~ just different. About the only thing they have in common is that they belong to the same species. Relationship become rocky when men and women fail to acknowledge they are biologically different and when each expects the other to live up to their expectations... When u understand the origins of these differences, u not only find it easier to live with them, u can manager, appreciate and end up cherishing them too.

Few things u should understand that;

• Women gathered, nurtured ~ her success was measured by her ability to sustain family life.
• Women are naturally intuitive
• Women always hide things from men~ well, actually they don't.. it just feels like that to men. Men often accuse women of hiding things from them in drawers and cupboards. They're all there, they just can't see them.
• Women can detect emotions thru tone of voice ~ are more sensitive to differentiating tone changes, voice volume and pitch!
• Women want relationships, stability and love.
• If a woman is unhappy in her relationships, she can't concentrate on her work.
• For a woman, having a sense of humour doesn't mean telling jokes. It means u laugh at his/her jokes.
• Women don't really understand what men really want. ~ so pls tell..
• Women recognise when love doesn't exist. That's why they're much more proactive in finishing relationships.
• Women want to hear sweet words rather than look at the male shape.

We still don't teach an understanding of male and female relationships much. We prefer to study rats running around mazes or to look at how a monkey will do backflips when conditioned by the reward of bananas. Huh!

Kenapa aku tiba-tiba aku bukak topik ni??!!. Well...

Semalam aku ke Melaka. Cuti-cuti Malaysia lagi. Jangan jeles ok :) Kebetulan kawan aku Eda nak jumpa kawan lama a.k.a kawan sepersilatan masa kat UKM dulu, Acai. I've know dis guy cuma tak mesra la sangat, gitu-gitu je. So tak pasal-pasal Acai jadi tour guide kitorang la semalam. Lepas habis pusing Bandar Hilir, kitorang hantar Acai balik rumah dia kat area situ gak ah. Sambil-sambil tunggu mak dia balik, kitorang duduk lepak kat pondok tepi rumah dia. Best gak tempat tu.. kampung kan.

Sambil-sambil minum teh, dia dua orang bercerita la pasal dulu-dulu. Aku cuma mendengar je. Alkisah nak dijadikan cerita, Acai rupanya ada hati dengan kawan aku ni ha dulu. Yang kawan aku ni pulak tak tau orang minat kat dia. Beria-ia kawan aku mengaku tak tahu.

Aku dengan poyonya menyampuk, "Awak tak bagi hint kot..".

" Hishh.. macam-macam hint da bagi. Siap tuju lagu lagi!", kata Acai bersungguh.

" Lagu? o, itu untuk aku ker.. aku ingat untuk Ira..", Eda pulak yang terkejut.

" Aku cakap lagu untuk ko dengar kat Era laa...". Acai tepuk dahi sendiri.

Hahaha! Aku gelak. Acai dah pegang tiang pondok sambil menghantokkan kepalanya.. err, tapi perlahan jelah..

" Ko kata nak ngurat aku tapi ko asik duduk kat budak pompuan lain..". Eda keluarkan statement mempertahankan diri.

" Ko ni tak paham laa...". Acai pegang tiang pondok lagi. Kali ni dia tak hantukkan kepala tapi goyang tiang sampai bergegar satu pondok.

Aku nyampuk lagi. " A'ah la Eda. Tanda-tanda orang tu ada hati.. bila orang tu susah semacam je nak bercakap dengan kita. Kelu. Tapi cakap ngan orang lain ok jek.."

Kitorang gelak. Acai angguk.

"Pernah skali ko kenalkan aku dengan kawan ko then ko mention aku ni adik. Aduhh, terus rasa lemah je aku..". Acai geleng-geleng kepala.

Lagi sekali aku sampuk. "Haa.. big mistake la tu. Lelaki yang ada hati kat kita memang tak suka dikenalkan sebagai abang atau adik kita. Macam rejection la tu.."

" oyeke... mana ko tau semua ni??!", tanya eda, pelik.

" Biasala.. i'm a fast learner! kehkeh...". Tu dia... jawapan poyo dari aku. Hahahaha..

Moral of the stori mori, aku rasa macam kesian kat kawan aku dua orang ni.. sebab kesengalannya yang tak memahami maksud yang cuba disampaikan, dan yang sorang lagi ingat dirinya telah direject,.. masing-masing bawa haluan sendiri. Lepas bertahun baru jumpa semula.. dengan masing-masing da ada pasangan, baru reveal cerita sebenar. Len kali takyah la nak bagi-bagi hint.. cakap terus terang. dapat macam kawan aku yang 'sensor' dia lambat, ha melepass! masuk angin keluar asap daaa.. kihkihkih.

Sure orang akan kata, da takde jodoh.. alah, common la tu. Tapi Tuhan suruh kita usaha gak kan. Cariii... takkan nak tunggu lelaki/pmpuan jatuh dari langit kot! Huhh.. <--- kata-kata khas dari aku untuk diri aku sendiri. :P Dah dapat, pandai-pandailah jaga hati pasangan yeee.. most of relationships fail because men still don't understand why a woman can't be more like a man, and women expect their men to behave just like they do.

Kalau tak puas hati lagi.. pi dengar lagu Bryan Adams! ;p Okla, this enty is only to educate yourself,.. ourself, ..myself (tak kisah lah..) So it's therefore up to u ! (^_^)v

# Antara " saya rindukan awak" atau " saya concernd pasal awak ". Ada beza ke? Bukan ke maksudnya " saya suka awak "!!! Hmm, sesuka aku jelah ;p