Fluctuation~

" A woman's self-esteem rises and falls like a wave "

Have u ever heard about Mr. Fix-it & The Home Improvement Committee?

• a man tries to change a woman's feelings when she is upset by becoming Mr. FIx-IT and offering solutins to her problems that invalidate fer feelings.
• a woman tries to change a man's behavior when he makes mistakes by becoming the HomE-IMprOvEment committee and offering unsolicited advice or critism.

Eventhou these two are common mistakes we make in relationships but I do not think that everything is wrong with them [Mr. Fix-it & The Home Improvement Committee]. The mistakes are only in timing and approach.

So,

If u r a woman, practice restraining from giving any unsolicited advice or critism.

The men in ur life not only will appreciate it but also will be more attentive and responsive to u.

If u r a man, practice listening whenever a woman speaks, with the sole intention of respectfully understanding what she is going thru. Practice biting ur tongue whenever u get the urge to offer a solution or change how she is feeling.

U will be suprised when u experience how much she appreciates u :D

Hmm,

Fair and square [eh, kenapa tidak circle or rectangle eyh? hehe].

~ Fair-minded sungguh ku hari ni. Huhu..

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*watashi wa ryoko o shitai desu. Ii desu ne. (^_^)

**credit: Dr. John Gray.